How to Identify a Jerk from His Bazi 八字

The Chinese entertainment is recently buzzing with news of singer Show Lo promiscuous lifestyle as shared by his ex-girlfriend of 9 years. His ex-girlfriend Grace Chow said that he is incorrigible and it's just his innate nature to cheat. I was curious and remember a Bazi master talking about bazi of guys with strong sexual desire. I decided to find out why he is not happy with a girlfriend. 

From wikipedia, Show Lo date of birth is 30 July 1979. I input his date of birth to Bazi calculator from here and this is what it show. I don't have his time of birth, so it only generate 3 pillars with liuzi 六字 instead of bazi 八字. Wow, he is a Strong earth day master. Its not a balance chart. 

A balance chart should have the 5 elements ideally (wood, water, earth, fire and metal). What is worse is his decade luck pillar is Ding Mao (fire rabbit). This is the year of Zi (rat). Zi-mao is one of the penalties normally relating to love affairs. He should listen to the white dragon master who had warned him to stay away from women.

I like learning Bazi from Ken Lai. In one of his posts on Bazi: Secret Dating Guide for Women, he shared that one of the 7 Bazi undesirable characteristics of male partner, is strong earth. Before you dump this type of guy, observe him first. If he cheat, just dump him. 

From Ken's Cyber Cave.

7.  DM with strong fire and hot earth 
This means a chart with mostly fire and hot earth (wei- and xu-earth).  DM has strong urge and hyperactive sexual desire that "normal" marital life may not satisfy his demands (and goes for extra-marital sex).  Generally speaking, people born in summer months of si, wu and wei have strong fire and earth in their charts.   

If your man hits one of the above, you may not need to dump him.  But if he hits 3+ of the above, consider yourself lucky for reading this post (and run away from the guy fast).  But you may want to consult a Bazi reader and take a Bazi course before dumping a guy.

We should not support male singer who treats women like toys. Period.

Wow, just looking at the day, month and year pillars, Show Lo already has 5 earth elements! 

Sometimes it better to be single than to be cheated by promiscuous man.

Feng Shui Talk by Master Xie Yuan Jin at Popular BookFest 2018 謝沅瑾老師

BookFest at Suntec Singapore is one event I look forward to every year. Held in December at Suntec city annually, you get to enjoy stationery, gadgets and IT, books, music and titbits at good discount. Besides shopping for the above items, you also get to enjoy other events like sharing by authors. 

In 2013, I attended a talk by Taiwan famous director and author, Giddens Ko 九把刀 。 This year, I attended a talk by famous Fengshui master from Taiwan, Master Xie Yuan Jin 謝沅瑾老師. After the one hour talk, he signed autographs for his fans. I learned some basic fengshui. If you want to learn more about Fengshui, you can watch Fengshui show he is involved in as shown below. There is a Chinese saying, 福人居福地 福地福人居. Blessed people live in blessed area and vice versa. To be a blessed person, just do more good deeds. 

Today is the last day for BookFest (end at 10pm) by the way. Next year, I hope Giddens Ko can give a talk again in Singapore BookFest. 

Nearest MRTs: Cityhall and Esplanade MRT stations

 Autograph session

Feng Shui Talk 2017 by Grand Master Raymond Lo at SOTA

Yesterday I attended the annual Feng Shui Talk by Hong Kong Grand Master Raymond Lo at School of The Arts (SOTA), organised by the Singapore Pools. I enjoyed the 2 hours talk and I was happy that I acquired more Bazi and Feng Shui knowledge from Master Raymond Lo. 

It is amazing that from Bazi (八字), you can know a lot about the person be it their talent or medical condition. Bazi is one of the Chinese five arts like I Ching, Traditional Chinese Medicine, Feng Shui, Bazi, Face or palm reading. From the moment we arrived in this mortal world, it's like our destiny is already written in the chart. Yes destiny can be changed but that requires a lot of effort like doing more good deeds and putting in more effort to change habitual habits. I looked at my bazi chart and I reflected on my life and it looks like everything is predestined. I have many metal elements in my chart. Metal element is related to the lung. Perhaps that's why I have sinus issue and tends to have one day of sneezing every one or two weeks. It can be so tiring to sneeze the whole day. Maybe because of my many metal elements, people find me aloof and cold. I'm just reserved and quiet but can be talkative and funny with my good friends.  

I would like to attend his bazi course but for 3 days, it costs $1100.00 which is very expensive in my opinion. Think I'll just buy his bazi book. 

At the end of the session, we were given goodie bag which included 2 mandarin oranges, red packets, plain water and a beautiful dragon since this year is Rooster year and Dragon is secret friend of Rooster. I find this very useful as I'm a Rooster lady and this year, there be self-penalty. Thus carrying the dragon makes me feel safer. Ya, I'm born in the year of Rooster so sometimes I (not every time) can be quite blunt. I try to control my outspoken mouth because once I spoke my mind many years ago, my colleague, a subject head was so upset that she cried hysterically. So now, before I speak my mind, I see if the person can take it or not. Think it's better to be kind than to be brutally honest. I must practise Right Speech and be sensitive. 

I hope to attend Feng Shui 2018 next year by Grand Master Raymond Lo again.

School of the Arts Singapore is located in the heart of Singapore buzzing city near Orchard Road, aka shopping paradise. Talented arts students are selected in this prestigious art school. 

 In Bazi, we need to understand the interaction of the 5 elements in order to make right analysis. It is surprisingly accurate if you know how to read. 

 This year is Ding You. Ding is candle fire and You is yin metal. I'm Ding fire day by the way. Most of the time I'm very nice and helpful like the candle. :)

 Looking at the bazi on the day it happened, 2 Dings which eerily look like 2 tall building . Chou, You and Si combine to form metal frame. From the top fire melt bottom metal. 

 Grandmaster Raymond Lo prediction for year 2017.

 

 He also showed bazi of many famous people. 

                                                          Feng Shui cures

Question and answer session

 This is the free cute dragon pendant for all participants. Phone not included. I better carry this dragon symbol with me as I'm born in Rooster year, and its self-penalty year. 

Wishing everyone Prosperous and Happy Rooster Year!